Grief can increase sexual desire as well as reduce it. Explore why libido may rise after bereavementand why this response is neither wrong nor unusual.

Not sure whether you want sex, companionship, a relationship, or space? This articleoffers a thoughtful framework for deciding what feels right now.

Not everyone needs to know your choices around sex and intimacy after bereavement. This article explores privacy, judgement, and emotional boundaries.

Feeling attractive again after bereavement can be emotional and complicated. This article explores body confidence, desire, and identity after loss.

Casual connections usually begin with the promise of simplicity. They are meant to be clear, contained, and free from the expectations that come with a relationship. But simplicity is not

After loss, there is often an assumption that the next meaningful step must involve opening yourself up to love again.

Casual relationships are often described as simple, but that simplicity tends to depend on how clearly they begin and how clearly they end. When endings are left vague, even the

One of the most difficult things for many people is not beginning something, but stopping it. Saying no can feel straightforward in theory, yet much harder in practice, especially when

Online dating can feel very different after loss, not simply because the landscape has changed, but because you have changed within it. Even if you have dated before, returning to

When you are stepping into casual dating after loss, it can be tempting to focus only on whether you feel ready. That matters, but it is only part of the

Readiness is often talked about as though it is singular. You are either ready or you are not. But for many widows, this way of thinking does not reflect reality.

What makes casual relationships feel complicated is rarely the situation itself. More often, it is the lack of clarity around it. When expectations are not clearly defined, things can begin

There is a moment many widows don’t expect. It doesn’t arrive neatly. It doesn’t wait for grief to settle or for life to feel stable again. It appears, often quietly, sometimes suddenly,

Embracing Intimacy After Loss: A Gentle Guide by Angela Vossen Rebuilding emotional and physical connection after the loss of a partner is a deeply personal journey—one often filled with hope, hesitation,

Embracing Intimacy After Loss: A Gentle Guide by Angela Vossen Rebuilding emotional and physical connection after the loss of a partner is a deeply personal journey—one often filled with hope, hesitation,

In her rawest and most revealing conversation yet, Nicky joins Sarah Knight on the It’s Got Pockets podcast to unpack the unimaginable...losing the love of her life, navigating solo parenting

Last month, we launched Desire – our anthology of anonymous stories to celebrate the raw, unfiltered experiences of longing, often known as widow’s fire. What started slow has been gaining

..but it doesn’t steal everything Widowhood is often painted in shades of gray, restrained, quiet, dignified. But real life is messy just like desire. Beneath the comfortable clothes and after

Let’s be honest, grief doesn’t extinguish the fire inside us. It might dim for a while, but it never truly goes out. And for some of us, it’s never burned

Whether you’re cautiously dipping your toes in or diving back in with confidence, dating in 2025 can feel like a foreign world of emojis and sci-fi-sounding terms. Confused? Don’t worry,

At WidowsFire, we are creating a safe and secure space to explore intimacy in grief. We’ve put together a few helpful tips to ensure you get the most benefit from your

Entering the world of dating can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. While meeting new people and potentially finding a little fun is your goal, it's essential to be cautious and

With more and more people turning to online dating in the wake of the digital era, the number of online dating apps, too, is growing. If you're navigating the dating

Here at WidowsFire, we aim to break the taboo and openly discuss the reality of sex while grieving. Losing your soulmate and lover does not necessarily mean losing your libido.

Now your profile is complete, it’s time for the fun part… a little window shopping. You need to search for members you think are hot, have similar desires and interests, and

Here at WidowsFire, we are creating a confidential and safe space for you explore no strings, uncomplicated, flirty fun with people who understand. We understand that you may have never tried

Ensuring your safety while meeting new individuals is of the utmost importance. We've created this comprehensive guide to help you stay safe online and in-person.

Losing a life partner is a devastating experience that can make the idea of dating and having sex with a new partner seem daunting. Many widows and widowers find themselves

A Simple Framework for Deciding What You Want Now